Going to the Dogs May Be Good for You
A recent trip to a pet store prompted me to reflect upon our national
passion for animals. People were buying everything from gourmet food to
jeweled collars to wool sweaters for their pets.
These doting
animal lovers are not alone. Americans own about 240 million pets. Our
spending on pet supplies and food is soaring, from about $4 billion
annually 20 years ago to about $17 billion today. The Upstate, by the
way, has one of the highest percentages of pet ownership in the country.
But
these statistics hardly convey the emotional investment we make in our
pets. Consider these examples: Among people who have pictures in their
wallets, nearly half carry pet snapshots, while only 2 percent have
photos of their mothers-in-law. (Of course, I carry both!) Well over
half of the 54 million dog owners buy Christmas gifts for Fido or
Fluffy. Some people even purchase "get well" cards for their pets after
being at the vet. The most popular reads: "Sorry to hear that you got
fixed."
As for me, I went to the dogs early in life. From the
time I was a toddler, I have always enjoyed canine friends. To be sure,
not all dogs are saints. But those of my experience have been the
embodiment of loyalty, courage, and forgiveness. Our household now has
two: an elderly golden retriever named Dena and a frolicking young
yellow lab named Shasta (we also have two aloof cats and a surly
iguana).
When I return from the office each evening, Dena and
Shasta greet me in a frenzy of affection. Shasta is especially comical.
She behaves like a jack-in-the-box, hopping up and down on all fours,
ecstatic at the prospect of a reunion with her human friends. I usually
respond in kind, not really hopping so much any moreI have a bad
kneebut showering the dogs with demonstrative hugs and saccharine
praise. My wife Susan often watches in bemused disbelief as I cavort
like a child with my four-legged playmates. But as I remind her, the
great thing about dogs is that you can act foolish around them and get
away with it.
For me, dogs are ideal companions because they
never display any bitterness or pretensions and are endlessly forgiving.
They exude a wholehearted acceptance of life; they greet each moment
with interest and energy. Their zest for life is exhilarating.
The
consistency of dogged devotion is also appealing. Whatever my mood or
degree of exhaustion at the end of a day, I can count on Dena and Shasta
offering an ecstatic greeting as if I were a long lost friend. They
yank me out of my self-absorption. Their effusive welcome is always the
same, rain or shine; their reservoir of love is unlimited.
The craving to be appreciated is one of our most basic desires, and
canines
readily accommodate our needs. When youre at the end of your leash or
feel hounded at work, a dogs affection can be immensely therapeutic.
Occasionally, I may be in the doghouse with my wife or children, but I
am always on good terms with our retrievers. "The one thing that a pet
does for you is love you no matter what," says Ginger Hamilton, a
psychologist who works with people and their pets.
Pets also help
lower our blood pressure, increase survival rates of heart attack
victims, enliven the outlook of the elderly, reduce doctor visits, and
lift the spirits of the disabled and mentally ill.
While
providing such benefits, dogs make few demands. All they require is
food, affection, an occasional grooming, and a willingness to throw
their favorite toy until ones arm collapses.
The simple needs of
dogs reveal the futility of our own overcomplicated lives. They also
remind us of age-old virtues such as simplicity, acceptance, caring,
cooperation, and trust. As an African proverb explains, if people lived
up to the reputation of a dog, they would be saints. So if you are
looking for companionship, love, and entertainment in 1998, turn off the
television and visit the humane society kennels. They have four-legged
orphans eager to be adopted. In fact, they will greet you with open
paws.
A
recent trip to a pet store prompted me to reflect upon our national
passion for animals. People were buying everything from gourmet food to
jeweled collars to wool sweaters for their pets.
These doting animal
lovers are not alone. Americans own about 240 million pets. Our spending
on pet supplies and food is soaring, from about $4 billion annually 20
years ago to about $17 billion today. The Upstate, by the way, has one
of the highest percentages of pet ownership in the country.
But
these statistics hardly convey the emotional investment we make in our
pets. Consider these examples: Among people who have pictures in their
wallets, nearly half carry pet snapshots, while only 2 percent have
photos of their mothers-in-law. (Of course, I carry both!) Well over
half of the 54 million dog owners buy Christmas gifts for Fido or
Fluffy. Some people even purchase "get well" cards for their pets after
being at the vet. The most popular reads: "Sorry to hear that you got
fixed."
As for me, I went to the dogs early in life. From the
time I was a toddler, I have always enjoyed canine friends. To be sure,
not all dogs are saints. But those of my experience have been the
embodiment of loyalty, courage, and forgiveness. Our household now has
two: an elderly golden retriever named Dena and a frolicking young
yellow lab named Shasta (we also have two aloof cats and a surly
iguana).
When I return from the office each evening, Dena and
Shasta greet me in a frenzy of affection. Shasta is especially comical.
She behaves like a jack-in-the-box, hopping up and down on all fours,
ecstatic at the prospect of a reunion with her human friends. I usually
respond in kind, not really hopping so much any moreI have a bad
kneebut showering the dogs with demonstrative hugs and saccharine
praise. My wife Susan often watches in bemused disbelief as I cavort
like a child with my four-legged playmates. But as I remind her, the
great thing about dogs is that you can act foolish around them and get
away with it.
For me, dogs are ideal companions because they
never display any bitterness or pretensions and are endlessly forgiving.
They exude a wholehearted acceptance of life; they greet each moment
with interest and energy. Their zest for life is exhilarating.
The
consistency of dogged devotion is also appealing. Whatever my mood or
degree of exhaustion at the end of a day, I can count on Dena and Shasta
offering an ecstatic greeting as if I were a long lost friend. They
yank me out of my self-absorption. Their effusive welcome is always the
same, rain or shine; their reservoir of love is unlimited.
The craving to be appreciated is one of our most basic desires, and
canines
readily accommodate our needs. When youre at the end of your leash or
feel hounded at work, a dogs affection can be immensely therapeutic.
Occasionally, I may be in the doghouse with my wife or children, but I
am always on good terms with our retrievers. "The one thing that a pet
does for you is love you no matter what," says Ginger Hamilton, a
psychologist who works with people and their pets.
Pets also help
lower our blood pressure, increase survival rates of heart attack
victims, enliven the outlook of the elderly, reduce doctor visits, and
lift the spirits of the disabled and mentally ill.
While
providing such benefits, dogs make few demands. All they require is
food, affection, an occasional grooming, and a willingness to throw
their favorite toy until ones arm collapses.
The simple needs of
dogs reveal the futility of our own overcomplicated lives. They also
remind us of age-old virtues such as simplicity, acceptance, caring,
cooperation, and trust. As an African proverb explains, if people lived
up to the reputation of a dog, they would be saints. So if you are
looking for companionship, love, and entertainment in 1998, turn off the
television and visit the humane society kennels. They have four-legged
orphans eager to be adopted. In fact, they will greet you with open
paws.